Making Yourself Successful
Success is nebulous.
It’s hard to define, because it means so many different things to so many different people. At the end of the day, your personal goals determine your success. For some, success is wealth or power. For others, success can be a modest, happy living doing what he/she loves. There is no single path to success.
I find myself, from time to time, feeling unsuccessful. I end up search for some measuring stick to determine my level of success. Oftentimes, that measuring stick is my peer group. Seriously, if you ever want a self-esteem killer, look at your friends (especially those who do what you do) who seem to be “more successful” than you. I do that, and if it doesn’t motivate me, it makes me feel like a failure.
Still, there’s an inherent problem: I haven’t truly defined what success means to me. When I begin to view success through my own lens, instead of through the lens of others, I begin to put things in perspective.
So, how do we measure our own success?
- Determine what’s most important to you. Is your feeling of worth based on status symbols or personal happiness? Moral debate aside, there is no wrong answer, IF that’s what you want out of life.
- Clearly define what you want to accomplish. The race with no finish line cannot be won. So, set goals for yourself in writing.
- Set a plan of action to reach your goals. You can’t eat the elephant all at once, but you can take one bite at a time.
- Keep your efforts visible. As you complete the steps to achieve your goal, leave your list as a reminder of how far you’ve come. The more you see that you’ve accomplished, the more motivated you will be to complete your tasks and goals.
- Surround yourself with a support team. Attempting to do everything on your own will simply lead to burn-out, and it’s a sure way to keep yourself from reaching your objectives quickly. Place yourself amongst people you can trust who want to see you succeed. However, be careful of the flatterers, the “yes men” who are afraid to confront you with the hard truths in a loving way.
- Refocus and regroup. It’s vitally important to periodically take time to reassess your direction. Have you strayed from your path? Have your desires or priorities changed? Do you need to realign your plans and goals? It’s ok to modify things, but you must all ways refer back to step one throughout the process.
- Ramp up your intensity. As you draw closer to your goals, don’t begin to coast. Keep pushing until you’re where you want to be. Stay on your path, not anyone else’s.
- Reflect. Look back on where you’ve been. Are you pleased? If so, then chances are, you’re successful!
Best of luck with your success, however you choose to define it!
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With the close of another year comes new resolve for the next. It’s a time to take stock of the year’s successes and failures–an oft painful time–and plans to grow and prosper in the coming year. This time is critical for those of us who are in business for ourselves. Whether you’re already self-employed, just getting started, or considering starting your own business, resolutions should be a daily occurrence, not just once a year.